I found a great primer for genderqueer people and those who are seeking to understand them:
My eldest has not yet come out to their dad, though this is inevitable – once you change your name on Facebook, news spreads. Also, my mother noticed the name change, and, well, she couldn’t understand a boundary if one bit her on the ankle, in my experience.
My big fear is that my Esteemed Spouse will feel hurt that they waited so long to tell him. I give him credit for being pretty accepting, but clearly Eldest has some trepidation.
It’s never dull here.